sexta-feira, 29 de julho de 2011
My Parents Reaction and Talk
My father called my brother and I,showed the letter and started talking.He says
that he wants to help me,wants me to be happy and want to go to therapy together.My mother said some really mean things,and showed that doesn't know nothing about being transsexual,wants me to go to church,pray and live as a guy(or at least gay),that I think turning into a woman is "cool" because of the media and Internet,thinks I'm too young,that all transwomen are prostitute or have bad jobs,that I will regret,that I never showed nothing that would make her think that I'm trans(she thinks I would need to be super girlish or something,and didn't want to read anything about transsexualism.Them both think I've been a little manipulated by the people I talk in the Internet,and I tried to explain that is not like that.
They don't want me to talk to these people,but I will still do that,and I hope that the therapist will help them to understand.
It surprised me that my father was calm and my mother was the mean one.After the talk she is treating me the loving way as always.I made a list of questions and points to give to the therapist,one of them is to not have two many months to therapy,because I don't want to get super manly at 18,then transition will be pointless.
Can't wait to therapy next week(at least my father said)